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October 04, 2008

Radical Love… Radical Lives

 
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Tomorrow, I will be introducing our theme for the 2008-2009 year. If there is ever a theme or a message that I would want to preach on, this would be it. In many ways, this is my testimony and the testimony of many people in our church.

Once a person has genuinely experienced God’s radical love, the natural response is to live a radical life for God. God’s purposes become a high priority in that person’s life.

It is my prayer that once this theme is unpackaged that we will see a revolutionary generation being raised up in our life time.

September 30, 2008

Saying Good-Bye


This afternoon I met up with one of our church members. The person sent me an e-mail about wanting to meet up before they left for their new job position in another city. Even though life is busy, whenever it is one of those “last” meetings, I try to make it a priority to meet up.

After hearing all about the new job and some of the transitions that they were going to go through, the person ended up thanking me and the church for all that we have done to make an impact in their life.

To be honest, I can’t take any of the credit because there were so many other people who have invested more into this person’s life. This is the beauty of partnership in the Gospel. As I do my part and others do their part, we work together to see transformation in one life at a time.

As I was walking back to the office, I couldn’t help but to think about the story where ten people were healed of leprosy, but only one came back to thank Jesus (Lk 17:11-19). It is amazing how a simple “thank you” really expresses a lot of what is going on in a person’s heart.

This person didn’t have to meet up with me (in fact a lot of people don’t, before they leave), but they wanted to express their heart of gratitude and joy and it really made all the difference.

It is always sad seeing people come and go, but something we always say here at HMCC is: "Our loss is someone else's gain."

September 29, 2008

Funeral Procession


Today, as I was studying at Panera Bread I glanced out the window and notice a funeral procession. I don’t know how many cars were part of the procession but I counted at least 30 cars.

This got me thinking.

I have always told our church members that you know how a person lived their life, not necessarily at joyous occasions like a wedding or a birthday party, but at their funeral. I realized that more people are willing to sacrifice and make the trip out to a person’s funeral than a wedding.

Why?

It is because when we lose someone that has made that much of an impact in our lives, we want to honor them and show our respect to them and their family.

Sometimes when I think about my funeral and the end of my time here on this earth (not in a sadistic way but in a practical and realistic way), I wonder what my funeral will say. It is my prayer that I will not get so consumed with doing task-related things that I forget about relationships, especially the ones that matter the most to me now.

September 26, 2008

Faith and God’s Honor


Recently, in some of my reflections and meditations, I have been thinking a lot about the relationship between God’s glory and faith. I have been trying to wrestle with the idea that somehow God receives a lot of glory and praise when His people live a life of faith.

Faith is a crazy thing.

When my kids have faith that I (their daddy) will catch them and therefore, they are willing to jump from an elevated place, it honors me. The sense of honor comes from the fact that they put that much trust in me and followed through on my command (to jump). What does it say about the kids? Well, it shows that they have a high view of dad – that dad is strong… that dad is not going to hurt them… that dad is trustworthy to put their life at risk.

Therefore, when we, as children of God place our faith in Him and live our lives knowing that God is Good, Strong, Trustworthy, Compassionate, Great, Loving, and etc., then what does it communicate to people about our Dad? Does our Heavenly Father find joy in our trust and obedience?

So if we say that God is honored by the way we live by faith, then the faith that we display will show the world what we view about God and possibly help people to see the nature of God.

Now…

Can we say that God is passionate about His honor?

In many ways, we can say that the above statement is true.

In Numbers 25:11, God speaks to Moses about Phinehas who was passionate about God’s honor. God says, “Phinehas son of Eleazar, the son of Aaron, the priest, has turned my anger away from the Israelites; for he was as zealous as I am for my honor among them.” God praises Phinehas for his zeal for God’s honor, which God Himself is zealous about.

Even in Numbers 20:12, God speaks to Moses and Aaron about how honor is connected to trusting in Him. God says, “Because you did not trust in me enough to honor me as holy in the sight of the Israelites, you will not bring this community into the land I give them.”

If God is passionate about His honor and glory, then wouldn’t God want to develop our faith so that He might be honored through us?

Hmm… then, how does God develop faith in a person?

This is when I reflected on my life. The times when my faith in God was increased was when I went through trials and difficulties. It testifies to the truthfulness of what some of the early followers of Christ wrote.

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything” (James 1:2-4).

“In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith – of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire – may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed” (1 Peter 1:6-7).

Wow! When our faith is tested by the fire, then it will “result” in “honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.”

Therefore, next time we face a trial or a difficulty in our lives… maybe God is wanting to strengthen our faith so that He will ultimately be honored.

But it is always easier said than done.

No wonder the prophet Isaiah said, “These people come near to me with their mouth and honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me” (Isaiah 29:13).

I am praying that God will give us the grace to honor Him.

September 19, 2008

A Rare Treat


I was able to spend the whole evening with the family on a Friday night! This is one of the few times in the 12 year history of our church. Normally, I would have to be at our Friday night gathering, but we had the LIFE Groups hang out together.

This freed me up and we decided to grab some dinner and watch a movie together. At first Christina wasn’t too hot about the idea since the movie started at 9:05PM (definitely way beyond the kids’ bed time). But something that I realized over the years is that memories are created with the kids when we are able to do spontaneous things – so she gave in!

We headed out to Ann Arbor’s very own Zingerman’s Roadhouse (they have one of the best hamburger around), then watched the newly released movie, Igor. I love these Pixar-sque movies that are fun for the kids and hilarious for the parents and how they have a good message.

The best part of all this was that it was free! We received gift certificates for Zingerman’s, as well as for the movie theaters. Our family loves gift certificates! It is a good teaching moment for the kids. They are beginning to understand that we are able to do a lot of things because of other people’s generosity, which is a great blessing… and hopefully in the future, they will understand that those who are blessed, are blessed in order to become a blessing to others.

They slept well tonight.

September 18, 2008

Reflections in a Cemetery


Today, I decided to stop by a cemetery. Sometimes I get these weird inspirations to do something out of the ordinary. I realized that over the years in my journey with Christ, I have always found cemeteries to be sobering and fascinating.

I think cemeteries are some of the most peaceful places to reflect and meditate on my life. It helps me to realize 3 things: the futility of life, the focus of my life, and the fruits from my life.

It is too easy to run around “doing” a lot of things, but when I am at a cemetery I have to ask myself, “Why am I doing what I am doing? And for what purpose?” Sometimes in my busyness, I forget what the most important things are in my life. It is easy to get distracted and lose focus.

As I read the tombstone and check the number of years that people lived, I always wonder what kind of life people lived. How did they live it? Did they impact people around them? Were there regrets?

Birds chirping… fresh flowers… silence… nothing beats it. It is an oasis in the midst of chaos.

Lord, help me to live today as if it was my last.

September 12, 2008

My Little Girl’s 5th B-Day


It is hard to believe that KiKi is 5 years old today. It has been 5 years of pure joy that she has brought into my life, as well as in our family's life. She has added an awesome dimension to the interaction in the home. She is really a gift from the Lord.

Due to all the busyness, we have decided to do our tradition (eating together at the restaurant of the b-day person's choosing) this coming Sunday.

This morning she is excited to bring some pictures, a book for the teacher to read, and some cupcakes to celebrate the big day with her classmates.

September 11, 2008

Patriot Day


Today marks the 7th Anniversary of the September 11th attack on the United States. It is also known as the Patriot Day. By a vote of 407-0, the House of Representatives approved a bill which designated September 11th as a day to remember the nearly 3,000 people that died in the terrorists attacks.

It is hard to believe that time went by so quickly. I still remember exactly the place where I first heard the news of the attacks. It will be for our generation a moment in history that we will not forget.

The dictionary defines “patriot” as, “a person who loves, supports, and defends his or her country and its interests with devotion.” I am realizing that it is harder to see people who have this kind of spirit in our generation as we did in the past generations.

As an U.S. citizen (naturalized, not born in the U.S.), I am thankful for all the benefits and blessings I have received from the people who have laid down their lives to obtain it for me.
 
 
 
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Picture from AP: Flag Memorial at the Pentagon during a 7th Anniversary of Sept 11th ceremony
 
 
 
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Picture from AP: Friends and family dropping flowers at the Reflection Pool at Ground Zero

September 09, 2008

Spontaneous Date


It is still a bit surreal for Christina and me to think that all our kids are at school for the whole day. Gone are the days where we had to pick up the kids in the middle of the day, which usually broke the rhythm and the flow of the day – especially when we were in a zone taking care of something.

Today, Christina had to stop by the Transformation Center for something and then she stopped by the office. As we were talking, we decided to spontaneously go out for a late breakfast and just hang out to talk. A part of me was thinking about all the stuff that I had to take care of, but I realized that these moments are special moments that might not come again; therefore I just went for it. At the end of our time together, I realized that it was good to do things out of the ordinary.

As we were walking back to the T-Center, we were talking about how we felt like young again. I guess as we get older we lose some of the spontaneity.

Another axiom I learned today: “Spontaneity sparks something special with your spouse.”

September 05, 2008

Training Camp for Churches


There are so many sports illustrations that help highlight a biblical truth. I love how the imagery of a team in sports gives us insight to the life of the Church. Dave Burchett, who wrote, When Bad Christians Happen to Good People, uses the football imagery to talk about how we assemble our church team.

I thought that this was very interesting because he has made a connection (at least on the illustration aspect) of how a church gets ready for a new season of ministry is somewhat similar to how football teams train to get ready.

Burchett writes,


     You start with a couple of All-Conference performers and a few other pretty good players. But you also have several who just started playing and don’t even know the rules or terminology of the game. Add some dreadfully out-of-shape, middle-aged players who have been around for years, who never work out or train, but who expect to get playing time nonetheless. You have a few who just don’t care anymore and don’t want to practice, learn the plays or listen to the coach. But you can’t cut them from the team or even bench them without causing big problems.
     There are some who try hard but are too weak or injury prone to be effective. A few regularly miss games and practices without notice and then reappear expecting to play and even start. Toss in some... umm… ‘mature’ players who remember the way the game was played back when it was really good. You also have some players who think the coaches and assistant coaches are total idiots. Some passionately believe that the offensive game plan is totally wrong and that all the other players need to change to comply with their personal team philosophy... now! And then you have some who try to run their own plays when they go into the game.
     Many of the players meet regularly at Denny’s after each game to disparage the coach and staff after saying grace over a Grand Slam breakfast. How do you think this team would perform? If they ever won a game, it would be a miracle.”

 
 
It is so true, isn’t? No team with this kind of situation that would be able to win a single game. As the new season of ministry is starting, it is imperative that we are all on the same page. The stakes are too high and people’s souls are on the line.

It is my prayer that now that OCR is over and we are in the regular season of ministry, we will reap a tremendous harvest. I am praying that we will see some incredible plays that will inspire other people to play on their highest levels.

Every football team at the beginning of training camp talks about winning the Super Bowl and being champions. I am hoping that we are not just talking about it but that this year we will start winning some championship for God.

August 26, 2008

Finding the Hard Balance


This past weekend, the family and I went to Josiah’s soccer game, which was about an hour away from Ann Arbor. The team’s tournament started on Saturday, but due to the TEAM Community Prayer Summit I was not able to go. But on Sunday after our Sunday Celebration I was able to catch the last game.

I realized that this year will be a difficult one in trying to find the good balance between family life, studies, church and Josiah’s soccer. Since Josiah made it to one of the higher teams in his age group, there are higher expectations from his team and the coach. There are more tournaments that are out of state and a lot more traveling for games and practices.

Knowing what it feels like to play soccer in high school without my parents coming out to any of my games, I made a commitment to be there for my kids’ games. Whenever I can’t make it to their games, it brings up an old wound. I have been trying to surrender this to the Lord.

I guess there will always be this tension of trying to be there for my children and trying to be faithful with some of the other responsibilities that I have as a pastor. But I am thankful that Christina is partnering with me to make sure that we are able to balance everything.

Even through all this, I am just excited to see Josiah excelling in soccer. He is definitely further along than I was at his age.
 
 
 
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These indoor soccer fields are breath-taking... I wish I played on them when I was younger.

August 24, 2008

KiKi Donates Her Hair


It first started off as just an idea and a suggestion. Christina asked Karissa if she was opened to donating her hair to Locks of Love, an organization that provides hairpieces to disadvantaged children suffering from hair loss due to various diseases.

Their mission is “to return a sense of self, confidence and normalcy to children suffering from hair loss by utilizing donated ponytails to provide the highest quality hair prosthetics to financially disadvantaged children.”

After hearing about where her hair would be donated, KiKi was very open to cutting her hair. So Christina took her to a hair salon that works with the organization and got a haircut for KiKi.

KiKi came back as a new young lady.

We are using these kinds of opportunities to develop a heart of compassion and sacrifice in our children.
 
 
 
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The hair had to be 10 inches long. They cut KiKi's hair into four pieces.
 
 
 
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A transformed young lady

August 13, 2008

Chinky-Eyed Mistake


Praise God for the Olympics. There are so many illustrations to choose from, it is truly a preacher’s banquet to feast upon.
 
 
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If you look at this picture carefully, you will realize that the Spain’s Olympic basketball team is posing by making slit-eyes with their fingers. Wow! And this is the year 2008.

Obviously, this has upset the Chinese host in Beijing, but more than that it has offended a lot of Asian people. This picture, along with the women’s basketball team (making the same gestures) were in the full page sports section of Spain’s best-selling newspaper.

In the Guardian newspaper’s report, it states, “No one involved in the advert appears to have considered it inappropriate nor contemplated the manner in which it could be interpreted in China and elsewhere. No offence was intended by the advert, but whether the Chinese see it that way is a different matter and it is likely to provoke more criticism at a delicate time for Spanish sport. The failure to recognise [sic] the potential consequences is striking in the light of the problems Spain has had with issues of race and the Spanish Olympic committee's continued desire to host the Games in Madrid in 2016 or 2020.”

Wait a minute.

Of course those involved in the advertisement didn’t “considered it inappropriate nor contemplated the manner in which it could be interpreted in China and elsewhere.” The reason is because they are focused on themselves and did not consider what an Asian person would have felt if they saw the picture.

This is the problem with race relations and even prejudice. A lot of times, we are not able to see beyond our own culture and our own comforts. This is why at HMCC, we are trying to teach the principle of “transculturalism.” Being transcultural simply means that it is “a decision to go through discomforts and difficulties in order to develop understanding and delight in people from a different culture.” It is not just a race issue but it even goes down to things like differences in personality and preferences. It is really learning how to think ourselves less and love people more.

Only a true understanding of the Gospel can bring this kind of transformation of the heart.

August 12, 2008

Not Pretty Enough for the Olympics


There was an interesting fact that surfaced right after the opening ceremony of the 2008 Beijing Olympics. The little Chinese 9 year old girl, Lin Miaoke that sang the Chinese patriotic song for the ceremonies really did not sing the song! She was lip-syncing to the voice of another 7 year old Chinese girl, Yang Peiyi.

Now, some of us might be thinking that gone are the days of Milli Vanilli. But this Olympic story has a sad tagline: “If you are not pretty enough, then no matter how good your voice is you do not make the cut.”

The chief music director for the opening ceremony in an interview explained, “The audience will understand that it’s in the national interest.” Hmm… national interest? As many of you know, I love a lot of things about the Asian culture, but when things like this happen, it makes me really wonder.

But I don’t think it is just an Asian culture thing. It really has to do a lot with a human heart thing.

In all the pomp and glitter of hosting their first-ever Olympics, they have forgotten that some things will pass away but the message that was communicated to the little girl will remain.

I don’t if I am being way too sensitive about this because I have a little girl, but all I know is that there are so many women who struggle with their self-worth and their self-image. It is more heartbreaking when I see it in the Church.

I love what the music director said – “The national interest requires that the girl should have good looks and a good grasp of the song and look good on screen. Lin Miaoke was the best in this. And Yang Peiyi’s voice was the most outstanding.” HA! Man, we want it all, don’t we?

So Miaoke became an instant hit (b/c of her looks and her fake voice), while Peiyi remains unknown to the international world.

A China Central Television reporter asked Peiyi whether she was saddened by the opening ceremony situation; and it was reported that Peiyi responded by saying that just having her voice used for the opening ceremony was an honor. Wow! I am praying that in about 10 years she will rock the world.

I am hoping for the day when people will go beyond the externals and see what is inside.

You can read the whole story here.
 
 
 
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            Yang Peiyi, the voice                                 Lin Miaoke, the look


August 11, 2008

Hanging Out with the Boys


Today Christina spent some personal time with Karissa, while I took the boys out. As the kids are getting older, I am seeing the importance of having the girls’ day out and the boys’ day out. It allows the children to observe and learn various manhood and womanhood principles from the parents.

In the future, I know that it is going to be even more important that I take Karissa and spend some one-on-one time. I remember hearing one time that the girl learns how a guy should treat her as she interacts with her father on a date.

All I know is that I am going to raise the bar so high that there will be no guy that will compare with her dad :-)

August 02, 2008

Ice Cream with Family


The family and I went to our favorite ice cream store yesterday and just hung out. The Oberweis ice cream chain finally came to Michigan. This was one of our Top 10 highlights of 2008 – yes, we really love this ice cream.

Sometimes life if made up simple things.

Small investments with ice cream and time go a long way in strengthening the bonds as a family.

July 03, 2008

The Crazy Ones


It was a pretty overwhelming day. When challenges or difficult situations happen all at once, then it is easy to lose perspective and even start to lose hope. During these times, it is helpful to remind myself of my calling and the vision that God has placed before me.

Sometimes, I wonder if I am just crazy (Christina thinks I am). Why do I do what I do? Why can’t I just choose the easier way? Why do I constantly find myself in situations that are beyond me?

It is in these moments that I try to remember that history is made by people who are not “typical.” They do things differently. They receive criticism and scorn. They have experienced failures. They don’t like the status quo. They are constantly pushing the envelope. Ultimately, they cannot be ignored.

There were many “crazy ones” through history and there are many “crazy ones” now. Christ’s disciples in the Bible were the “crazy ones;” and now, the 21st century followers of Christ are continuing in the legacy of making history for the glory of God.

I always get inspired by this video (and no, I am not endorsing Apple... ha!)
 
 

July 01, 2008

Courage to Get Involved


I don’t know if you have heard the string of news reports about people doing nothing in a time when immediate action was required. One situation involved a 78 year old man who was hit by a car and as he was lying there, no one did anything. Another incident happened recently where a woman was in a hospital waiting room and ended up dying. The sad part of this was that there were people (including security guards and doctors) who just watched and did nothing.

This got me thinking.

What causes a person not to get involved?

1) Fear. Sometime when we unsure of what is going, it causes us to freeze and shy away from doing what is right. The mentality that we have is: it is always safer not get involved.

2) Self-centeredness. The last thing we want to do is get involved in a situation because we are too busy or we know that it will require too much from us.

3) Apathy and indifference. Some of us just don’t really care of about things in life and we don’t want anything to disturb it either. We are perfectly content to live life without any purpose.

4) Lost of values. We have devalued human life in our generation. The concept of the “imago dei” has been lost. This causes us to see people as objects rather than people who are valued because they are made in the image of God.


 
 
To address each of these reasons (which is by the way, not exhaustive), we need people of courage… people who care… people who are willing to make a difference.

Aren’t some of the same principles involved in reaching out to people and showing them the love of Christ? Whether it is fear, self-centeredness, apathy, indifference or lost of values, we would rather do nothing and just do what is secure and safe, which is to hang out with the same group of people and never leave our comfort zones to love people.

Sometimes loving our neighbor is harder than we think. No wonder, Jesus had to use a Samaritan to make His point (Lk 10:30-37).

Here are the 2 videos of the incidents that I have described above. It is pretty disturbing.
 
 

 
 
 
 

June 16, 2008

Blogosphere Check-Out 06.16.08


I am spending some time with my family and some of my close friends and their families for several days. Then I will be heading out to Chicago for a little bit to spend time with our extended families.

I have made a promise to Christina that I will not be working on my blog or other things that might distract me from giving my 100% to her and the kids. I want to honor her and my promise therefore I will not be on the blogosphere for a few days.

June 12, 2008

Jesus and His Wife?


As many of you know, I was not brought up in the church; therefore when I would hear about some of the crazy stories about elders and deacons fighting with each other with knives on the church lawn, it was unfathomable and made me more cynical about the Church. When I heard about people criticizing other churches about various doctrinal issues, it just didn’t make sense to me.

It wasn’t until I was in the thick of “the church life” when I started to feel the pain of the criticisms and even the hurtful things that people would say about me, as a pastor. It is not pleasant to hear from people (both anonymously and identifiable people) that you are a cult leader, too charismatic in theology, overly blunt, too goal-oriented, and etc. I guess God has graciously developed in me a thick skin. Therefore, when it comes to criticisms, I just allow it to bounce off me as much as possible. But of course, it is important to be humble enough to listen to the criticism.

Usually when people criticize me then I am fine with it because I do not play for their applause but when people criticize the church, it was a different story.

I read an article that gave a good perspective on this issue.

If Christ is our Bridegroom and the Church is His Bride, then whenever people criticize the Church, then they are criticizing Christ.

As a married man, who is in love with his wife, let me explain it this way. If someone criticizes Christina in front of me, then I would most like do something to them that will be very un-pastoral. It would fuel something in me that would make me want to protect Christina and even set that person straight because I love Christina.

I am wondering how many times Christ’s heart breaks because of the criticism that is launched against his Church (which is made up of many local churches). There is a saying that we mention during HMCC's Membership Class: “If you ever find a perfect church, then please don’t join it because you will end up ruining it.”

There is no perfect church. But church is made up of imperfect people. This is why we, as members need to learn how to help sanctify it, grow it, and protect it. I love that one Under Armour commercial where the athlete says, “I will protect this house!” I am wondering if this is something that we need to remind ourselves with when there is criticism launch towards the Bride of Christ.

You can read the full article here.

June 10, 2008

Church Pirates


When I came across this video, it was refreshing to hear a well respected church leader share his thoughts so frankly. I think in the church we have also become so PC (politically correct) that we are afraid of offending anybody. But the reality is that truth sometimes is hard to hear and even harder to accept.

There are many people today who are trying to start up churches – which is a great thing because we will never have “too many” churches. No "one" church can reach out to the whole university or even the whole city. But the question becomes what is the best way to start up churches.

Ed Young, pastor of Fellowship Church in Dallas, addresses the reality of many young church planters starting churches by stealing people from other churches, hence his vocabulary of “church pirates.”

I think there are two issues at hand. First, when we think about church planting the best way to approach it by doing evangelism. But this takes a lot of time and effort, which many church planters are not willing to go through. Secondly, many people who check out or join new church plants are usually “disgruntled,” “dissatisfied,” and “disillusioned” people (please note: I did not say, “all” but “many”). Therefore, should we just tell them not to come to the new church plant because they have issues that they need to deal with the old church?

No matter how you look at it, our goal should always be to reach out to the unreached. Also, if disgruntled, dissatisfied, and disillusioned people from other churches come, we should try to make sure that they resolve whatever issues they have and get the blessings from their former pastor before they can attend the new church. Hmm... maybe this will solve some of the issues.

Church planting is not easy. It really has to be the work of God; and God using people who are completely surrender to Him.

It is my prayer that as we go into various campuses and cities to plant future churches, we will always reach out to the unreached rather than trying to fight over the same piece of pie. The world is just too big and time is just too short for us to neglect the harvest. If there are some people who are coming out to our church, who were part of another church, then I think it is our responsibility to make sure and direct them to get the blessings of their former pastor. But our main focus should be on the unreached and the pre-Christians.

Anyways, check out this video by Ed Young and some of his candid and up-in-your-face sharing about church pirates.
 
 

June 09, 2008

Training New Leaders?


Not too long ago, someone forwarded me a video interview with Bill Taylor, who did some research on the internet shoe company, Zappos.com.

I was pretty fascinated by this interview because of the title. Now you have to admit that a video titled, “Why Zappos Pays New Employees to Quit?” should draw anyone’s attention. They are doing some radical things to promote their DNA and continue their quality control, which comes down to customer service.

As I was watching this video, I couldn’t help but to think about the church. How do we normally train up people? What do we do about “disgruntled” servants? How important is it to have everyone on the same page? Do we settle for the status quo?

I know that for many pastors and church leaders, one of our concerns is trying to grow our church, both qualitatively as well as quantitatively. But too often we are more concerned about the quantity rather than the quality. I have also been a believer that if we work on the quality, then the quantity will come.

People are not stupid. They want to be part of something that has quality and something that will bring life transformation.

If this is the case, then why aren’t we more focused on producing quality leaders and servants in the church? It is my prayer that all our churches will be able to train our members to be passionate about the mission that God has given to us.


Check out this provocative video here.

June 06, 2008

Stay-at-Home Mom Makes Thousands


I learned very quickly in my marriage never to ask the question, “So what did you do ALL day?” Inherent in that statement, I was somehow communicating to Christina, who is a domestic engineer (translation = stay-at-home mom), that she does nothing.

I still remember the first time I watched all the kids for a portion of the day and feeling exhausted and depleted. It was after this experience that awakened me to the fact that only the strong of heart can really be a stay-at-home mom or dad for that matter.

It is easy to think that my job or responsibilities as a pastor are harder than Christina’s but I am coming to the conclusion that she might have the harder job.

This is why it was fascinating to read an article titled, “Mother’s Love Worth $117,000 Per Year, Study Says.”

A study done by Salary.com, calculated a mother’s market value. Hmm… that is a good question. How much should a mom be compensated for all that she does?

In this study, the firm studied the pay levels of 10 job titles and then compared them to all the duties that accompany what a typical mom performs in terms of her duties. It ranged from a housekeeper, a day care center teacher, van driver, psychologist and even to a chief executive officer.

They found out that if a stay-at-home mom could be compensated just purely in dollars, then she would be making close to $117,000/year! It is estimated that a domestic engineer works an average of 94.4 hours per week and the reality is that she does not get paid with dollars, but with personal satisfaction and love.

You can read the full article here.

This made me think a lot about Christina and how thankful I am for her. With a woman of her potential, she willingly chose to be a stay-at-home mom. She saw the precious years of the children as time that will never return; therefore she saw her “job” as investing in the children by staying at home.

I know that when I write or talk about these kinds of things, I get a lot of women (and even men), who with a liberated mind would say that she is limiting herself and that she has bought into this “conservative/rightwing/narrow-minded/women hating/oppressive” perspective. To them, I simply don’t know what to say. Maybe they need to be educated that there are many, “liberal/leftwing/open-minded/women loving/liberated” people who are making some of the same choices.

The bottom line is that I really honor and respect all the stay-at-home moms because your job is a difficult one and when you do it with grace and love, it is truly inspiring. Even for the single moms who “have” to work to support the family, you are worthy of a double honor.

June 05, 2008

Love is Spelled T-I-M-E


One of the hardest things about traveling is the time that I miss with my children and Christina. Thank God for technology and the ability to connect with my children via e-mail and webcam. But often times in my longer travels, I miss playing sports with them and yes, even tea party with KiKi.

I received this video link this morning that talked about how love is spelled T-I-M-E to a child. It was powerful and reminded me the importance of clearing out my schedule before and after a trip so that my kids know that they are loved by me.

If you are a busy father, get some tissues ready before you watch this video.
 
 
 

June 02, 2008

Reviewing Our Yearly Goals


Christina and I had a great time hanging out together for our anniversary yesterday. We had a awesome dinner at Pacific Rim by Kana in downtown Ann Arbor. We were pleasantly surprised at the elegance and the quality of the food.

We also spent some time reviewing our yearly goals. One thing good about having our wedding anniversary on June 1st is that it is near the middle of the year so that we can track to see if we are hitting the target for our marriage.

This year we decided on the 3 I’s – Intimacy, Investment and Influence. We concluded that there are some things that we needed to tweaked and some more practical things that we needed to implement.

Since Christina and I love watching, we treated ourselves with the Iron Man movie. Then before retiring for the night we spent some time praying with one another. I am truly a blessed man to have a beautiful woman, who have committed to me for the last 12 years and Lord willing, many more years to come.
 
 
 
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The love of my life for 12 years (maybe more since she caught my eye in college)

June 01, 2008

12th Year Wedding Anniversary


Today is our wedding anniversary. Wow… twelve years of marriage to the woman I love! There are times when Christina and I feel like we have been married for only a few years and there are other times when it seems like forever. But either way, I am constantly reminded of how God brought us together. God really knew what He was doing.

With each passing year, my appreciation for our commitment to the marriage covenant grows. I am always humbled by her love and devotion to me. She has taught me so much about God’s character through her life. When I needed forgiveness and grace, she would always exemplify it in the most unexpected times. Christina's unwavering love for me has inspired me so many times. I can truly say that I love her more today than I did when I said the vows 12 years ago.

I can truly say that my life has been richer and fuller because of her.

This is the day that we will be renewing our commitment, love and loyalty to one another again. Praise God for wedding anniversary because it is a reminder of God’s faithfulness and His goodness on our lives.

May 19, 2008

Till Death Did They Part


It is hard to imagine being married for 50 years, let alone 75 years, but J.C. and Josie Cox from Texas have hit that milestone of 75 years. It is longer than what most people will live in their lifetime.

I wonder how their lives changed over the years. When I think about the last 12 years with Christina, I am amazed how much marriage has changed me for the better. We have also talked about growing old together and walking along the beach (or maybe sitting on a bench near the beach) as we old and gray.

The commitment of “until death do us part” is not easy. There were times where we both felt frustrated, hurt and even angry at one another. But we had to constantly remind ourselves of the commitment that we made before God, our family and friends on our wedding day.

This is why it was encouraging to hear how J.C and Josie Cox not only stayed married for 75 years together but they died five hours apart. They truly could not live without one another.

You can watch the CNN’s video of their inspiring story.

May 07, 2008

A Vision of the Lost

 
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The above oil painting was commissioned in 1993 by Last Days Ministries, which was founded by Keith Green. It was a depiction of a vision that William Booth, the founder of the Salvation Army had one day.

Vision is a powerful thing. The Bible says that, “where there is no vision, the people perish” (Pr 29:18, KJV). It is interesting how God used vision or revelation throughout the Bible to speak to people and even communicate His heart to them.

In light of this past Sunday Celebrations message about “going,” I want to share with you Booth's vision. As Booth was traveling in his coach, he was looking out the window and saw the condition of people around him. He recounts that people were “living carelessly and in shameless rebellion against God, without a thought for their eternal welfare.” He says, “As I looked out of the window, I seemed to see them all… millions of people all around me given up to their drink and their pleasure, their dancing and their music, their business and their anxieties, their politics and their troubles, ignorant – willfully ignorant in many cases – and in other instances knowing all about the truth and not caring at all. But all of them, the whole mass of them, sweeping on and up in their blasphemies and devilries to the Throne of God.”


Here is the vision:

I saw a dark and stormy ocean. Over it the black clouds hung heavily; through them every now and then vivid lightning flashed and loud thunder rolled, while the winds moaned, and the waves rose and foamed, towered and broke, only to rise and foam, tower and break again. In that ocean I thought I saw myriads of poor human beings plunging and floating, shouting and shrieking, cursing and struggling and drowning; and as they cursed and screamed they rose and shrieked again, and then some sank to rise no more.

And I saw out of this dark angry ocean, a mighty rock that rose up with its summit towering high above the black clouds that overhung the stormy sea. And all around the base of this great rock I saw a vast platform. Onto this platform, I saw with delight a number of the poor struggling, drowning wretches continually climbing out of the angry ocean. And I saw that a few of those who were already safe on the platform were helping the poor creatures still in the angry waters to reach the place of safety. On looking more closely I found a number of those who had been rescued, industriously working and scheming by ladders, ropes, boats and other means more effective, to deliver the poor strugglers out of the sea. Here and there were some who actually jumped into the water, regardless of the consequences in their passion to ‘rescue the perishing.’

And I hardly know which gladdened me the most – the sight of the poor drowning people climbing onto the rocks reaching a place of safety, or the devotion and self-sacrifice of those whose whole being was wrapped up in the effort for their deliverance.

As I looked on, I saw that the occupants of that platform were quite a mixed company. That is, they were divided into different ‘sets’ or classes, and they occupied themselves with different pleasures and employments. But only a very few of them seemed to make it their business to get the people out of the sea.

But what puzzled me most was the fact that though all of them had been rescued at one time or another from the ocean, nearly everyone seemed to have forgotten all about it. Anyway, it seemed the memory of its darkness and danger no longer troubled them at all. And what seemed equally strange and perplexing to me was that these people did not even seem to have any care – that is any agonizing care – about the poor perishing ones who were struggling and drowning right before their very eyes… many of whom were their own husbands and wives, brothers and sisters and even their own children.

Now this astonishing unconcern could not have been the result of ignorance or lack of knowledge, because they lived right there in full sight of it all and even talked about it sometimes. Many even went regularly to hear lectures and sermons in which the awful state of these poor drowning creatures was described.

I have always said that the occupants of this platform were engaged in different pursuits and pastimes. Some of them were absorbed day and night in trading and business in order to make gain, storing up their savings in boxes, safes and the like.

Many spent their time in amusing themselves with growing flowers on the side of the rock, others in painting pieces of cloth or in playing music, or in dressing themselves up in different styles and walking about to be admired. Some occupied themselves chiefly in eating and drinking; others were taken up with arguing about the poor drowning creatures that had already been rescued.

But the thing to me that seemed the most amazing was that those on the platform to whom He called, who heard His voice and felt that they ought to obey it - at least they said they did - those who confessed to love Him much were in full sympathy with Him in the task He had undertaken – who worshipped Him or who professed to do so - were so taken up with their trades and professions, their money saving and pleasures, their families and circles, their religions and arguments about it, and their preparation for going to the mainland, that they did not listen to the cry that came to them from this Wonderful Being who had Himself gone down into the sea. Anyway, if they heard it they did not heed it. They did not care. And so the multitude went on right before them struggling and shrieking and drowning in the darkness.

And then I saw something that seemed to me even more strange than anything that had gone on before in this strange vision. I saw that some of these people on the platform to whom this Wonderful Being had called, wanting them to come and help Him in His difficult task of saving these perishing creatures, were always praying and crying out to Him to come to them!

Some wanted Him to come and stay with them, and spend His time and strength in making them happier. Others wanted Him to come and take away various doubts and misgivings they had concerning the truth of some letters He had written them. Some wanted Him to come and make them feel more secure on the rock – so secure that they would be quite sure that they should never slip off again into the ocean. Numbers of others wanted Him to make them feel quite certain that they would really get off the rock and onto the mainland someday; because as a matter of fact, it was well known that some had walked so carelessly as to lose their footing, and had fallen back again into the stormy waters.

So these people used to meet and get up as high on the rock as they could, and looking towards the mainland (where they thought the Great Being was) they would cry out, "Come to us! Come and help us!" And all the while He was down (by His Spirit) among the poor struggling, drowning creatures in the angry deep, with His arms around them trying to drag them out, and looking up - oh! so longingly but all in vain – to those on the rock, crying to them with His voice all hoarse from calling, ‘Come to Me! Come, and help Me!’"


Booth then gave a stirring rebuke and challenge for the believers who have been rescued. He writes,

“And then I understood it all. It was plain enough. The sea was the ocean of life – the sea of real, actual human existence. That lightning was the gleaming of piercing truth coming from Jehovah’s Throne. That thunder was the distant echoing of the wrath of God. Those multitudes of people shrieking, struggling and agonizing in the stormy sea, was the thousands and thousands of poor harlots and harlot-makers, of drunkards and drunkard makers, of thieves, liars, blasphemers and ungodly people of every kindred, tongue and nation.

Oh what a black sea it was! And oh, what multitudes of rich and poor, ignorant and educated were there. They were all so unalike in their outward circumstances and conditions, yet all alike in one thing – all sinners before God – all held by, and holding onto, some iniquity, fascinated by some idol, the slaves of some devilish lust, and ruled by the foul fiend from the bottomless pit!

‘All alike in one thing?’ No, all alike in two things – not only the same in their wickedness but, unless rescued, the same in their sinking, sinking… down, down, down… to the same terrible doom. That great sheltering rock represented Calvary, the place where Jesus had died for them. And the people on it were those who had been rescued. The way they used their energies, gifts and time represented the occupations and amusements of those who professed to be saved from sin and hell – followers of the Lord Jesus Christ. The handful of fierce, determined ones, who were risking their own lives in saving the perishing were true soldiers of the cross of Jesus. That Mighty Being who was calling to them from the midst of the angry waters was the Son of God, "the same yesterday, today and forever" who is still struggling and interceding to save the dying multitudes about us from this terrible doom of damnation, and whose voice can be heard above the music, machinery, and noise of life, calling on the rescued to come and help Him save the world.

My friends in Christ, you are rescued from the waters, you are on the rock. He is in the dark sea calling on you to come to Him and help Him. Will you go? Look for yourselves. The surging sea of life, crowded with perishing multitudes rolls up to the very spot on which you stand. Leaving the vision, I now come to speak of the fact - a fact that is as real as the Bible, as real as the Christ who hung upon the cross, as real as the judgment day will be, and as real as the heaven and hell that will follow it. Look! Don’t be deceived by appearances - men and things are not what they seem. All who are not on the rock are in the sea! Look at them from the standpoint of the great White Throne, and what a sight you have! Jesus Christ, the Son of God is, through His Spirit, in the midst of this dying multitude, struggling to save them. And He is calling on you to jump into the sea - to go right away to His side and help Him in the holy strife. Will you jump? That is, will you go to His feet and place yourself absolutely at His disposal?

A young Christian once came to me, and told me that for some time she had been giving the Lord her profession and prayers and money, but now she wanted to give Him her life. She wanted to go right into the fight. In other words, she wanted to go to His assistance in the sea. As when a man from the shore, seeing another struggling in the water, takes off those outer garments that would hinder his efforts and leaps to the rescue, so will you who still linger on the bank, thinking and singing and praying about the poor perishing souls, lay aside your shame, your pride, your cares about other people’s opinions, your love of ease and all the selfish loves that have kept you back for so long, and rush to the rescue of this multitude of dying men and women.

Does the surging sea look dark and dangerous? Unquestionably it is so. There is no doubt that the leap for you, as for everyone who takes it, means difficulty and scorn and suffering. For you it may mean more than this. It may mean death. He who beckons you from the sea however, knows what it will mean - and knowing, He still calls to you and bids to you to come. You must do it! You cannot hold back. You have enjoyed yourself in Christianity long enough. You have had pleasant feelings, pleasant songs, pleasant meetings, pleasant prospects. There has been much of human happiness, much clapping of hands and shouting of praises - very much of heaven on earth.

Now then, go to God and tell Him you are prepared as much as necessary to turn your back upon it all, and that you are willing to spend the rest of your days struggling in the midst of these perishing multitudes, whatever it may cost you.

You must do it. With the light that is now broken in upon your mind and the call that is now sounding in your ears, and the beckoning hands that are now before your eyes, you have no alternative. To go down among the perishing crowds is your duty. Your happiness from now on will consist in sharing their misery, your ease in sharing their pain, your crown in helping them to bear their cross, and your heaven in going into the very jaws of hell to rescue them.”

May 06, 2008

Following Our Calling


Today I was reading something about leadership and I came across this thought by Kirsten Strand. In her article, “Following A Tough Call” she writes:

“I have learned that ignoring a calling can lead to depression, anger, frustration, and a deep dissatisfaction with life. And I have learned that following a calling can also lead to moments of depression, anger, frustration, and loneliness. Yet, underneath those feelings will be a profound sense of peace and satisfaction.”


It is so true. Many times on the surface level following a call and being outside of God’s will might appear the same due to the difficulties of obeying God. I don’t know how many times I have doubted and even went through some periods of frustration.

But by the end of the day, I realized that there is a tremendous sense of peace knowing that God will equip me with everything that I need to fulfill the call.

“May the God of peace, who through the blood of the eternal covenant brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great Shepherd of the sheep, equip you with everything good for doing his will, and may he work in us what is pleasing to him, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory for ever and ever. Amen” (Heb 13:20-21).

May 05, 2008

Business and the Church


It is exciting to be in the discussion of how business and church (viewed mostly as trying to mix oil and water) can co-exist to benefit various communities. This is something we at HMCC have believed in for some years now. I have told many people that if there is a business principle that works in the secular world, it is probably a biblical principle packaged in business terms.

One of the reasons (in the midst of myriad of reasons) why a lot of ministries close down is because of the lack of resources, especially financial resources. Pastors in the church have either shied away from raising up the business people or they have just used them for their money. But now there is a movement of trying to raise Kingdom minded people to use their gifts and talents in the business world to build up God’s Kingdom around the globe.

Here is a writing that was done by one of our business guys who is trying to open up the channels of discussion on the subject of BoP and the faith communities. You can read the article here.

April 17, 2008

Sex Ed


Tonight Christina and I went to Josiah’s school’s sex education program for the 5th graders. Yes… Josiah went with us. This is one thing good about sending kids to a Christian school at the early and formative years for a child – they are able to address big topics with a Christian worldview. They had two Christian physicians do the presentation. They titled it as, “Changes, Challenges and Choices: The Road to Adulthood.”

The topic of sex is not the easiest topic to talk about with your own children, but I am thankful that when Josiah turned 10 years old he and I went on a camping trip to talk about the topic of sex (it was one of the hardest things that I had to do). If the children do not learn it from their parents, they will learn it from some other people and usually it is not the best influence.

It was interesting when the two physicians asked the parents, “did any of you attend a sex class with your parents while you were growing up?” In a room filled with about 35 adults, only about 2 hands went up. I couldn’t help but to think about how I first learned about sex… it sure wasn’t from my parents or the church. The locker room version is always a bit twisted.

One ground rule that they put down before everything got started was that no one would use slang terms for the various organs. It was quite interesting when the physicians gave some examples, I knew every single one of them… Lord help me!

After a general presentation, we split up the boys and the girls into 2 groups. As we went to the boys’ group, the male physician addressed more specifically about male topics. He did a great job of presenting the various sexual issues professionally as well as with some tact.

Afterwards, as we were in the car, Christina and I asked Josiah what he thought of the talk. Josiah’s answer? “Good.” HA! The beauty of a 5th grader trying to say that he understood everything that was discussed.

I think the greatest goal for this talk at the school was to open up the channels of communication for the child and their parents; and for this, I am truly thankful.

April 16, 2008

What’s on Your Calendar?


I was just recently reading an article that caught my attention. It read, “What’s on Your Calendar?” For some reason I was drawn to read the article because my mind was thinking, “there are a lot of things on my calendar.”

The article was written by H. B. London Jr. who oversee the pastoral ministries at Focus on the Family. He writes,
 


“There is a commercial now running on television that concludes with the words, ‘What’s in your wallet?’ This past month and early into January, I have received any number of calendars. Today, as I was looking at a new one just opened, I thought, ‘What’s on your calendar?’ The more I pondered that statement, the more profound the thought became – ‘What’s on your calendar?’

The Psalmist wrote in the beautiful 139th Psalm, ‘All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be’ (v.16). A divine calendar whose entries were penned by God Himself. He had things in mind for us. I often wonder how my calendar compares with His.

As most of you know, my assignment at Focus on the Family requires that I travel a lot. Some of those trips are ‘calendared’ several years in advance. There are times when I forget them until they are upon me. I live my days by a calendar – some days hour-by-hour. But the question remains: ‘What’s on your calendar?’

For instance, does each day note adequate time for you to spend with your Lord? Hopefully, those times are early in the morning. I trust your calendar provides you with sufficient time to show honor and concern for your family members. Does each month have a notation that reads ‘date with spouse’ and/or ‘quality time with my daughter’? Perhaps, ‘basketball game Friday at 7:00 pm.’ What we hear so often from your colleagues is a cry from their families just to be included.

Another entry in your calendar should be the yearly medical check-up. I must admit someone usually places that one on for me – but honest, my friends, ‘the temple’ deserves some special attention. If you do not make time, you place your effectiveness in jeopardy.

How about clearing an afternoon or two each week to ‘walk in the village,’ to rub shoulders with those in your community who need to see you from a perspective outside the pulpit? You shepherd best one-on-one. Oh, and what about your day off? Do you guard it or do you allow other things to take away your sabbath? Is your vacation scheduled for 2006? If you don't do it, soon the pages will be filled with other things.

I don’t mean to belabor the fact, but your calendar tells more about you than anything. It speaks of spiritual discipline, priorities and, most of all, your intimacy with the God who called you and your special gift called family.


 
 
In many ways, there is truth to what he was writing. Just like our check books tell a lot about what we value and what is important to us, our calendars (or lack of one) communicates something to us. I am trying to find a better balance with everything that is on my plate. Some of the things that are on my calendar are pretty obvious (i.e. family, time with God, sermon preparations, etc) but other things need more attention.

The tricky part is always trying to separate what is good from what is the best. This is why spending some time in prayer and seeking the Lord helps in the discernment process.
 
 
“Man’s steps are ordained by the LORD” (Pr 20:24, NASB)

“I know, O LORD, that a man’s life is not his own; it is not for man to direct his steps”
(Jer 10:23, NIV).

April 12, 2008

A Reflection on the 40-Days


As my family and I are getting ready for the Miracle Sunday Offering and the Pledge service tomorrow, I couldn’t help but to feel this sense of gratitude in my heart. It is amazing that our whole church went through 40 days of reading the Bible together, as well as spending time in prayer for the Destiny Campaign. For our family, it was a joy to see the boys reading through the Bible schedule. We also spent Mondays sharing about the passage and praying together for the Destiny Campaign.

When I thoroughly think through what we are trying to do as a church, I am just speechless. We are not a church with a lot of well-established adults who have made their fortune and fame. Instead, we are a church with a lot of college students (who have little resources), single adults (just starting off in their careers) and young families (navigating through their tight budgets).

How in the world are we going to raise $1.7 million and even shooting for $2.2 million with renovation cost? It seems like such an incredible feat that unless God is in it, it is doomed to fail. This is what we are banking on. We believe that God is in it and that God is with us. This is why we can respond in faith.

Just today, I sent out an e-mail to the church reminding them about the Miracle Sunday Offering and the Pledge service. Then within a hour of my e-mail, an alumnus who is half way across the world responded back with an amount that they want to give. When I read the e-mail, it blessed me a lot. Then I realized that even though they are thousands of miles away and they haven't been back to Ann Arbor for a long time, they are still committed to the vision. When I told Christina this, we came to the conclusion that those people who have truly experienced transformation are the ones who will give sacrificially. Why? Because since they have experienced it for themselves, they want other people to experience it as well.

I believe these past 40 days have been journey of faith. Now, as we a day away from reaching the next step in our destiny, I am confident that the people of God will respond by faith to the challenge that is before us.

I just praise God for His Faithfulness to our church for the last 11+ years and it is His Faithfulness that will carry us through the future. What an incredible ride!

April 11, 2008

American Idol and "Shout to the Lord"?


Did you hear? This week in American Idol at the closing of the program, the top 8 finalists all sang, “Shout to the Lord.” This is huge! Even though they took out the word, “Jesus” in the beginning (replaced it with “shepherd”), it really was shocking to hear that they sang a worship song on national television.

At this Q Conference, we saw a video that was produced by Charity Water and it talked about the need for clean water in various parts of the water. It was a powerful witness when we found out that this video was going to be played at the American Idol, as they were going to feature some of the charities that will be supported through Idol Gives Back.

The founder, Scott Harrison is a Christ-follower and has a powerful testimony of how everything got started. As he shared during one of the sessions, it reminded me of the importance of engaging the media world and making an impact through deeds of mercy.

Check out the video that was played during American Idol:
 

 
 
 
I am wondering if the producer of American Idol is a Christ-follower because someone influenced the show to have “Shout to the Lord” performed. Possibility. Also, it seems as if some of the finalists are believers as well. We are slowly approaching a time where people of faith are using the medium of the arts and media to be the “salt and light.” This is truly an exciting time. I am praying that we will see more people in the Church that will use their artistic talents to glorify Jesus Christ.

Here is the American Idol’s version of “Shout to the Lord”:
 

April 09, 2008

MORE in 40-Days to Destiny


As we are coming to a close of our 40-Days to Destiny Campaign, I have been blessed to hear of various testimonies of how God has been working in the lives of our church members. But one question continues to come up – “After the April 13th service and when we obtain the facilities, then what is going to happen?”

It is a good question because since we have been focusing on spiritual growth within this 40-Day campaign, what will happen afterward? And my response is simply – “We need to continue to grow!” We should never stop growing. This campaign was put in place so that we can build some momentum, not only for the April 13th service, but more importantly, for what is going to happen afterward.

I felt the Lord placing the word, “More” in my heart as we were halfway through this campaign. I sense that these 40-Days are to prepare us for the future things that are to come. Therefore, I just came up with an acronym for the word “MORE” to help us focus on growth even after the 40-Days to Destiny Campaign is over. It is simply:

M – More Ministries

O – More Opportunities

R – More Resources

E – More Evangelism


 
Once we get our own location there will be greater growth in our ministries as well as new ministries starting up. Therefore, there has to be people who are growing spiritually so that we can prepare and respond with a heart of service to the Lord.

Secondly, with the new building there will be more opportunities to minister to people and the community. With a stable location, we will have more visibility and integration to the campus and community. This will enables us to reach out to and disciple more people that God will be bringing in to our church.

Thirdly, as people are growing spiritually there will be more resources needed to allocate for building God’s Kingdom. As our church develops more, we will need more people-resources and financial-resources to make things happen. Without spiritual growth, we will not be able to respond to God and meet the need.

Lastly, as we are growing spiritually we believe more evangelism will happen. For some reason, whenever we grow spiritually, we begin to gain more of God’s heart; and God’s heart is for the lost. We want to see God filled in the house of worship every Sunday and Friday.

With only 4 days left, let’s look beyond this coming Sunday and look into the future – even to 2009 – and see the possibilities of growth that could happen and growth that needs to happen. May we desire “MORE!”

March 26, 2008

The Hannah Montana Craze

 
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As I shared in my Easter Celebration message, the Hannah Montana craze is getting out of hand. The problem is not so much the young kids, but the parents. It is amazing to see what lengths some parents would do to get tickets to a Hannah Montana’s concert. Just Google “Priscilla Ceballos” and there are close to 80,000 pages on the mother who made her daughter lie about her father dying in the Iraqi War in order to get free Hannah Montana tickets.

Today, I read an article about a father who ran a 40-yard dash in high heels in order to win Hannah Montana ticket. But the problem is that he lied to his company and is now charged with workers compensation fraud.

The parent’s heart always wants to give things to their children because it is an expression of love, but when is it too much? The sad fact is that many parents will go to extreme measures at the expense of violating important principles and reinforcing negative character traits.

March 25, 2008

Day 23 of Destiny

 
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It is hard to believe we have passed the half way point for our 40-Days to Destiny campaign. It has been encouraging to see many people in our church follow the reading plan. Even as we have been journaling some of our thoughts on the reading, it is awesome to see that the focus is constantly on the importance of spiritual growth throughout these 40 days.

As we are looking forward to the April 13th service, where we will take a Miracle Sunday Offering and participate in a 2-year pledge, I am praying that there will be a great response from the people of God.

A lesson that God has been teaching me over and over again is that we are always willing to give when we are blessed and spiritual growing. God placed this phrase in my heart this morning as I was praying, “We give when we are grateful, growing in grace and grasping more of His glory.” If we are experiencing these things, why can’t we reach our target? Nothing will be impossible.

March 20, 2008

Heroes in the Family


The last several days I have been trying to play Mr. Mom because Christina came down with the flu. She was immobilized with a fever and body aches. This has caused me to put a hold on my regular routine of life to help out more around the home.

After a couple of days, I have realized that when the father is sick, life in the home continues on. But when the mom is sick chaos reigns. This shows who the real hero is in the Kim household. I am amazed how much Christina does throughout the day, week, month and year. It is easy to take things for granted, especially the small things that are not easily noticeable.

This whole situation has brought a renewed sense of appreciation for Christina and how much she does for our family.

Through this whole experience, God has been teaching our kids about praying for healing. It has been a blessing to see the kids pray for their mommy by laying their hands on her. It is no wonder that God loves to honor the prayers of children, since they pray with faith and sincerity.

March 14, 2008

Hard Choices by Leaders


Leadership is always about influence and setting the example for people to follow. Too often people fall into the trap of thinking that leadership is about a position; but truthfully, I have met some pretty bad positional leaders.

I was blessed just recently by Christina with a decision she made. One of her good friends is getting married and it was going to be some kind of reunion of sorts for all her friends. People were going to be flying in from various parts of the United States. Since, she always has to stay home with the kids when I travel, I decided to bless her and allow her to go early and spend some extra time with her good friends, while I stay at home with the kids – kind of like a ladies weekend out.

But the problem was that it conflicted with our TEAM Community Vision Meeting (this is a time of casting vision and refocusing with all the leaders in our church). She had a hard decision to make. A part of me wanted her to go since this will be one of the last times when all her college friends will be able to gather together like this.

Surprisingly, at the last minute she decided to stay and leave after the TC Vision Meeting, which means that she will only be able to go to the wedding and not have time with her friends.

I don’t know why but it really humbled me and reminded me why I love and respect her so much. She reminded me of the important lesson of what all leaders need to consider – the principle of sacrifice.

As we get older, the choices and decisions we have to make get harder. It becomes less black and white and more on the grey. But to find people who have clarity of vision, purpose and focus is hard to find.

I am so thankful that I married a woman who lives out biblical principles every single day in front of me and the children. As the writer of Proverbs said, “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her” (Pr 31:28).

Now, I feel compelled to give her my frequent mileage for a free getaway with her friends to have a ladies night out. I am wondering if this is how God feels at times when the principle of sacrifice is lived out.

March 13, 2008

Easter Preparations


I think in the midst of everything that is going on in our church, we have somewhat lost focus for this coming Easter. Believe it or not, it is coming up in 10 days. The title of this Easter’s sermon series is called, “Phenomenon.” There are many phenomenons recorded in history that will “wow” people, but the greatest phenomenon is the resurrection of Jesus Christ. In fact, it literally transformed the world.

As we are busy getting ready for this special Sunday, I want to encourage everyone to continue to pray for Easter. Not only for God to use all the various presentations and the message, but most of all for the people who will be attending.

I am especially praying for the pre-Christians and those who have fallen away from the Lord who will come out.

In his book, The Unchurched Next Door, Thom Rainer makes some interesting points. He said that 82% of un-churched people are receptive to attending church if invited and escorted by a friend and that 21% of church-going Christians invited someone to church in 2006.

The first percentage is overwhelming if you think about it, while the second percentage is disheartening. Can you imagine that there are people who would be open to coming out to church (especially on Easter) if they were invited by a friend? But the sad reality is that only 21% of the people in the church do invite their pre-Christian or backslidden friends.

What would happen if we put these statistics to the test and then take the risk of inviting someone from our dorms, classroom, workplace, and family? I am wondering if heaven will be a little bit fuller with people who are amazed at God’s grace.

Let’s do our part – Invest and Invite!
 
 
 
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Prayer for the 40-Days


I was reading something this morning and I came across this quote by Luis Palau, “You can read all the manuals on prayer and listen to other people pray, but until you begin to pray yourself you will never understand prayer. It’s like riding a bicycle or swimming: You learn by doing.”

We have been encouraging everyone to make the focus of these 40 days on spiritual growth. One good way to grow spiritually is by prayer. I am hoping that these 40 days will spark a prayer movement in our church, even long after the purchase of the facility.

Some thing can be talked about, but there are some things that we just have to start doing. May we be more doers when it comes to prayer.

Remember there are 2 avenues for prayer. I hope you will choose at least one and start praying.

1) Morning Prayer – M-F at University Reformed Church (URC) at 6:30AM 2) Evening Prayer – M-Th at FCC’s Douglas Chapel at 10PM

March 11, 2008

Choices We Make


There is a phrase that I am fond of saying. I think I say it more intensely and in frequency right around this time of the year when so many people have to make decisions. The phrase? “Your decisions determine your destiny.”

I am firm believer of this. As I look at my life, I realized I am where I am because of the decisions and choices that I have made. Of course, there are some decisions that were not as wise and some decisions that I wish I could have prayed about some more. But nonetheless, these choices have shaped who I am today (for better or for worst).

Over the years, I have come to understand that decisions and choices are fueled by various motivations. This is what I am always trying to examine when it comes to the decisions that I have to make. Also, this is what I try to help people to examine when it comes to the decisions that they have to make.

It is amazing to see how many choices are made because of fear, insecurity, lack of faith, desire to please people, selfishness, pride, and the list goes on and on. Decisions are never easy – even the simple ones of what to eat or what to wear. But decisions must be made and it is these decisions that make us who we are. Therefore, we have to honestly ask ourselves, “Are our decisions going to glorify God or glorify ourselves?” “Is it going to build God's Kingdom or build my kingdom?”

I love what C. S. Lewis said in his book, Mere Christianity, about decisions. Lewis writes, “Every time you make a choice, you are turning the central part of you, the part of you that chooses, into something a little different from what it was before. And, taking your life as a whole, with all your innumerable choices, all your life long you are slowly turning this central thing either into a Heaven creature or into a hellish creature – either into a creature that is in harmony with God, and with other creatures, and with itself, or else into one that is in a state of war and hatred with God, and with its fellow creatures and with itself. To be the one kind of creature is Heaven: that is, it is joy, and peace, and knowledge, and power. To be the other means madness, horror, idiocy, rage, impotence, and eternal loneliness. Each of us at each moment is progressing to the one state or the other.”

Where are we turning the central part of who we are?

The more I look into the Bible, the more I see that decisions that turn the central part of us toward heaven are difficult decisions. It requires death to self – death to our selfishness, our pride, our insecurities, our impure motives, our fears and etc.

Maybe the reason why some of us are having a hard time deciding is because we are not willing to die to ourselves. I think the call of Christ to every disciple is clear – “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:34-37)

March 05, 2008

Another Snow Day


As a kid I remember loving the snow days when school w