Good Leadership

Author: sethskim  |  Category: Values, Viewpoint

 
If any of you have ever been in a leadership role, you will know that being a leader is not easy. In fact, one of the hardest parts of leadership is addressing issues that arise with the people you are leading.

Lt. Gen. David Morrison, who is Australia’s Chief of Army, addressed his troops directly via video about an investigation regarding explicit e-mails about female staffers that were sent by officers and other soldiers. It is an effective video because it has all the good characteristic traits of admonishing people who fail to act with integrity and honor, which can ultimately ruin an organization.

Jena McGregor, a columnist for The Washington Post writes,

“He starts by shaming those involved in the alleged incident or who would consider any similar action by reminding them that they’ve let down the veterans they respect. Their actions, he says, let down not only those currently serving, but ‘all of those whose past service has won the respect of our nation.’ It’s also convincing for how he reminds members that eradicating the Australian Army of such inappropriate behavior is not just the job of leaders, but of everyone: ‘The standard you walk past is the standard you accept,’ he says. And his message is commanding for how direct he is about the consequences for behavior that is demeaning toward women. ‘If that does not suit you, then get out,’ he says, noting he will be ‘ruthless’ in getting rid of bad apples. ‘You may find an employer where your attitude and behavior is acceptable, but I doubt it.’ He closes the video this way: ‘If you’re not up to it, then find something else to do with your life,’ he says. ‘There is not place for you amongst this band of brothers and sisters.’

This style might not suit everyone, but it is a good lesson for all leaders to learn how to address issues when it affects the whole organization.
 
 

Father’s Day 2013

Author: sethskim  |  Category: Values, Various, Viewpoint

 
Being a father is probably one of the hardest callings in the world. But once you embrace it, there is nothing more fulfilling. On this Father’s Day, I am thankful for the privilege of being a father to my three children.

It is my prayer that I will continue to do my best to reflect Christ in all that I do, even though at times I fail.

To all the fathers at HMCC, I am thankful that we are on this journey together. Let’s raise up the next generation of people who will transform the world.
 
 

God Writes Love Stories

Author: sethskim  |  Category: Values, Various, Viewpoint

 
In a world filled with superficial romances, it is refreshing to hear about a love story that is leaving people flabbergasted. Often times, when people try to find someone to spend the rest of their lives with, they fluctuate on the extremes. They either look for someone with “form” (looks, height, body shape, ethnicity, etc) or someone who will play the spouse “function” (meet their needs, companionship, have children, etc).

We all want both – the form and the function.

But sometimes God might surprise us with a person that will not have everything that we wanted as a little kid watching all the Disney movies.

Fact: We will all get old and some aspects of the “form” WILL change. Also, as a couple goes through different life-stages, the “function” WILL change or even disappear.

This is why it is imperative that we find a person that we believe God is preparing for us in order to make us more holy and Christ-like. There will never be a “perfect” person because we are all sinful. But we are gradually being made “perfect” (Col 1:28) by His grace as we reflect more of Christ in our lives.

Here is a video of Nick Vujicic and Kanae Miyahara and their incredible love story. There is no denying that God is the author of it. Their story is also being used as a powerful testimony to demonstrate the greatness, goodness, and glory of God.

May God write all of our love stories for the full display of His glory!